How to Politely Turn Down a Guy

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Before you even say a word, think long and hard about why you don’t want to date him/her.,
If you STILL want to say no,thank this person (if you hung out together) for all the good times you had.

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Be clear about your decision, but do not be bluntly honest about the reason.,
Do not say “I’m not ready for a relationship,” or even “I already have a boyfriend/girlfriend,”.,
You are not obligated to discuss or provide a lengthier explanation of why you do not want to date someone.,
If you already had a friendship, you may ask if you can still be friends.

Be sure about your decision.;
,, “I’m sorry, but I don’t think we’re compatible,” or “I don’t feel there is potential for a relationship here,” are answers that are far preferable to “I don’t find you attractive,” or “I feel that you are boring,” which will unnecessarily hurt his/her feelings.

, This may lead the person to believe that you would date them, so unfortunately they may pursue you even more.

, If the person persists, be very clear that this is your decision, that you are moving on and that they should move on as well.

, Beware though, that if you maintain the “friend” thing, he/she might not give up so easily.

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