Wear nice clothes.,
Act like you don’t care.,
Be easy-going and approachable.,
Let your crush see you with other guys/girls.,
Talk to him or her!,
Get to know him or her more.,
Find common interests.,
Be a good friend.,
Give him or her space.,
The first thing you’ve got to do is make yourself the kind of person that people notice and want to be around! This is the best way to get and keep your crush’s attention. Get up off the couch and start doing things with your life! This will give you something to be proud about, something to talk about, and show others the full, complex person that you are. If he/she says that you’re ugly, ask him/her the truth somewhere private.
You can volunteer, pick up a new hobby, join a club, get a job, or any number of other activities. Everyone loves it when one of their friends has the same interests as them. Just make sure to only join activities you want to join, and don’t be forced to do something you don’t want to.
, No one wants to deal with someone who’s always complaining or who constantly says bad things about other people. Instead of only seeing the bad things in life, bring out the good in everything and everyone around you. Find the positive spin or lessons to be learned from bad situations. Your crush will notice and feel much better about your positive personality.
, No one wants to date someone who might say bad things about them or be mean to them. Show your crush that’s not you by being nice, not only to them but to everyone around you. Help people, always have a kind word for someone who needs one, compliment people, and find other ways to be nice too. If they look bad, or you don’t like their shoes, Just tell them politely or just don’t look at their clothes. For example, smile and be friendly! And just be yourself around them!
, Take care of your body. This shows that you care about and value yourself, showing others that you are worth caring about and valuing. Wear clean clothes with no holes or stains, wash your hair and body regularly, take good care of your skin and exercise as much as you can. Your crush won’t want to be around you if you don’t look or smell nice.
, You want your crush to like you for who you are, so always be yourself. Don’t change yourself or try to be someone you’re not. People can usually tell and you’ll only make yourself frustrated and sad. Don’t let a crush change who you are! Do the things that you enjoy and if anyone doesn’t like it, then they aren’t worth your time.Who knows maybe he/she likes it when you act like yourself!
, Everyone likes someone who’s confident. This is a very attractive quality for boys and girls! Of course, you don’t have to actually be confident. Most people aren’t, even if they seem like they are. Treat yourself well, don’t constantly apologize to everyone, and get out there and do the things that make you you.
, Some great clothes will certainly capture attention. Wear clothes that fit the current fashions but also are flattering to your coloring and the shape of your body. You don’t have to break the bank, either. Try resale or thrift shops in trendy areas or nearby colleges or universities for stylish clothes on the cheap side.
, Don’t be clingy or desperate. This will make your crush think you have issues they really don’t want to deal with. Instead, put on an air of cool. If they don’t seem like they want to talk to you, go talk to someone else. Throw parties and don’t invite them until the last minute. Show them that you have your own life and that your world doesn’t revolve around cataloging every time they so much as sneeze.
, You don’t want to intimidate your crush. Maybe they already like you but they’re worried you’ll blow them off or bite their head off if they try to talk to you or ask you out! Be friendly, don’t over-react to things, and definitely don’t act like a jerk if someone else that you don’t like asks you out on a date.
, Let them see you talking to and hanging out with other members of the gender you prefer to date. They need to see that you have other options and that you know you have other options. This will make you more desirable.
, Of course, the best way to get their attention is to talk to them! They might not even know you exist if you’re too shy, so get out there and have a conversation with them. Ask them about what they’re doing this weekend, or how their day went. Ask them about things you’re doing in school or their opinion on the latest football match. Anything that gets the two of you talking is great.
, No one is going to fall head over heels for someone they don’t know and that they know doesn’t know them! Get to know your crush, beyond the absolute basics (birthday, favorite color, etc) and learn what really makes them tick. Of course, the best way to do that is to communicate with them.;
, Find things you have in common. This will give you something to talk about but it will also give you something to bond over. You’ll be friends before you know it and a friendship is much easier to build on. You can compare interests, learn their interests just by paying attention, or you can explore the things they like. Who knows, maybe you’ll find that you really like their taste!
, The qualities of a good friend are also the qualities of a good boyfriend or girlfriend, so start by being a good friend so that your crush can see what they have to look forward to. They say that the person you date should be your best friend, so it’s probably a good idea to set the bar high, right?
You can be supportive when they’re feeling down, help them whenever you can, be fun and help them relax, make them laugh (especially when they’re having a bad day), and generally be a good friend.
, There needs to be trust, in order for real romantic feelings to develop (and stick around). Never reveal a secret they tell you, don’t generally go around telling people their business, and be someone that they can come to with their problems without having to worry about being laughed at or judged.
, Give them the space to go out and do the things that they want to do. One fear that a lot of people have about dating is that the demand on their time and affection will mean that they won’t be able to hang out with their friends or on their own as much, and that they won’t get the time to do the things that they want to do. Give your crush some space and alone time and they’ll see that you value their happiness above your own.
, Well, they need to know that you like them, don’t they? Flirt with them and show them that you are definitely interested. This will tell them that they can return your feelings without having to worry as much about rejection. But don’t flirt too much. Maybe tell them to give them a reason to think about you, but not to early or they will just back away.
, If things don’t work out, don’t get discouraged. This doesn’t mean you can’t be friends. Later on, that person may feel they, too, like you and finally hit things off. Now, if things are going downhill once your relationship starts, talk to your crush about it. If you think you need a break, tell them. If they find out that you are being a little shaky, but you aren’t being honest about it, the relationship will come to a stop. Breakups are the worst, so don’t let that happen to you!