When you first met this boy, what was your initial vibe?,
Don’t be “creepy nosy,” but just think about his Myspace or stuff laying around in his room.,
Have you heard people talk about him, whether it be good or bad.,
How many ex-girlfriends has he had?,
How does he act around you opposed to his friends or family?,
Ask yourself, “Could I stand this person being with someone else”.
Was it a little weird; or maybe it was a secure feeling?;
, Does he seem to have a lot of “friends-who-are-girls”? Does he have real bad language, maybe talk a little bad about women? Does he imply bad intentions? If he hates his ex today, maybe he’ll be saying the same bad things about you tomorrow.
, What do his good friends say about him? What do his ex-girlfriends say about him?
, This may tell you how long the relationship may last which, in turn, will tell you if he’s serious about a commitment to you.
, He should treat you differently, act a little more respectfully. i.e. He shouldn’t curse (as much) around you, or make “rude” noises and/or gestures. This should be left with his buddies.